Juggling between two.
Well, some of you might know that I am actually planning for my engagement soon. I didn't tell everyone bluntly. I just share it with my close friends and will do the rest like a month before the engagement. There's nothing extravagant or big about it, I want it to be simple and sweet :)
So I won't tell you guys here when and when, because we have also decided on our wedding date also! For the nikah, Sabah's reception and bertandang. All I can say is, its going to be next year. Alhamdulillah. All I've been waiting for all this while. Because I don't believe in being in relationship too long with your boyfriend.
I don't know whether this blog will become a wedding blog as well. Maybe I can share some of the preparation. Or maybe not. Because I really don't wanna kill all the surprises! And, I don't want people to expect too much from our celebrations.
Deciding the date was the first obstacle. It was not easy because we have to consider a lot of things! Being a research student, I really don't know how my schedule would be next year. I just hope I will get some days off for my wedding. We had quite a number of arguments before finally decided that if God's will, InsyaAllah everything will be okay.
Budget is another thing. All this while, I have always told myself I only want a simple nikah at JB, then the groom's side then reception back in hometown. All I want is nikah! But Mom objected since Mama has a lot of relatives usually and since (I think) they have waited for our's turn for some time already. Oh c'mon. We've been in relationship for almost 5 years now and relatives keep on asking already. Fuh.
And juggling between study and wedding preparation? With no wages every month? Erkkkk! I still have a lot of reading so if I am not with the journals, you will find me browsing through wedding blogs.
Then I couldn't stop.
Then I have problem finishing reading my journals.
Then my supervisor would definitely kill me!
But right now I need to focus on the engagement first. I want it simple and chic. I don't want the typical pelamin. I don't want the usual canopy. I want it to be different. And I want my own creation dessert table.
Other than that? Thank god I have a sister who loves wedding so much! Hahahahaha.